Kansas nun shares memories of her brother who is on path to sainthood

IMAGE: CNS photo/Christopher Riggs, Catholic Advance

By Christopher M. Riggs

WICHITA, Kan. (CNS) — Sister Marita Rother really
didn’t get to know her brother, Father Stanley Rother, as a priest until she
visited him in Guatemala in the 1970s.

She was at the Adorers of the Blood of Christ
convent in Wichita when he left to study for the priesthood.

“He went to the seminary right
after high school,” she said, adding that he didn’t tell his parents of his
interest in the priesthood until after he graduated.

“We never talked about it,”
Sister Marita told the Catholic Advance, newspaper of the Wichita Diocese. “We were
both rather quiet. I didn’t even tell my friends until shortly before I left
that I was actually leaving (to become a nun).”

Still, she and her three brothers
were close to one another and to their parents, she recalled.

“We were very seldom not doing
things together. Our parents really did keep us in line. We had great respect
for each other … anytime they would hear squabbling — if it was in their
earshot — they would calm us down.”

But Stanley was different from his siblings, she said.

“I actually do not remember him
getting a scolding from my parents,” Sister Marita said. “I got my share, my
other brothers got theirs. Not that I was comparing myself, but when I thought
back on it, I don’t remember, particularly my mother, ever correcting him for
anything, or scolding him like we used to get.”

His behavior may have been a
foreshadowing of why he will soon be honored by the church.

Sister Marita will be among
those participating in a beatification ceremony for Father Rother Sept. 23, in
Oklahoma City. Pope Francis acknowledged Father Rother’s martyrdom in December,
making the Okarche,
Oklahoma, native the first recognized martyr to have been born in the United
States.

Hundreds of thousands of
Catholics died in the Guatemalan civil war from 1960 to 1996, targeted because
of the church’s insistence on catechizing.

In time, Father Rother’s name
appeared on a death list. He and an associate left Guatemala in 1981 because of
the danger. Father Rother returned to Oklahoma, but his heart was still with
the people.

He had a great empathy for the
poor, Sister Marita said. Though many of his flock spoke Spanish, a year or two
after he began his missionary work in Santiago Atitlan, he asked to begin training in the Tzutujil language, one of the
21 Mayan languages spoken in Guatemala, so that he could better serve his
flock.

“It’s a very difficult language
to learn and almost everyone who heard him speak it could not believe that he
learned it in the short time that he did. This man who flunked a year in the
seminary because he couldn’t learn Latin is now speaking Tzutujil,” she said.

It was a blessing for many of
his estimated 15,000 parishioners.

“They could understand what he
was talking about,” Sister Marita said. “It got to where he was giving his
homilies in Tzutujil. He soon became known as Padre A’Plas, his Indian name, which was Tzutujil
for Francis.”

Francis was Father Rother’s
middle name.

Because of his ability to
communicate in the Mayan dialect, she said, the people claimed Father Rother as
one of their own.

“When he left, it was like
leaving his people,” she said. “There was no one there to continue the Mass in
their language. He did not want to leave. When he got home, he longed to be back
with them. He knew they were not going to survive spiritually and I think he
felt like he abandoned them.”

He returned to Oklahoma for
about three months.

“When I saw him … he looked
terrible. It was like he was lost. He kept gazing out the window, kind of in
his own thoughts, and we knew what they were.”

When he was told it was safe to
return to Guatemala, he hesitated because of his mother’s illness, but he
decided to return.

“I’ve got to do it,” he told his
sister. “And I knew that. I could see it in his eyes. He had to do it.”

Within three months of his
return, on July 28, 1981, three men entered his rectory in the dead of night
and murdered him.

“We knew he was in danger. We
didn’t know that things had escalated to that point,” Sister Marita said. “To
get that call was very painful.”

She added that she began to
understand the love the people had for her brother on her second trip to
Guatemala in 1978. She met children here and there all named Francisco. “It
turns out there were lots of Franciscos there,” she said. “It became a very
common name.”

Although Father Rother’s body is
buried in Resurrection Memorial
Cemetery in Oklahoma City, his heart will always be with the people he
loved. It is enshrined at St.
James the Apostle Church in Santiago Atitlan.


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Riggs
is editor of the Catholic Advance, newspaper of the Diocese of Wichita.

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