Smith dinner's tone lighthearted, but abuse crisis not ignored in remarks

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By Beth Griffin

YORK (CNS) — In the current toxic environment where political rivals describe
each other as “evil” and “enemies,” it is imperative to remember that in
America, “our political opponents are not evil, they are just our opponents,”
according to Ambassador Nikki R. Haley.

U.S. ambassador to the United Nations was the keynote speaker at the 73rd
annual dinner of the Alfred E. Smith Memorial Foundation Oct. 18 at the New
York Hilton.

distinguished the heated rhetoric from the “true evil” she has witnessed in
South Sudan, Syria and North Korea since she arrived at the United Nations in

Al Smith dinner honors the memory of the former governor of New York, who was the
first Catholic nominated by a major political party to run for president of the
United States. Proceeds from the $3,000-a-plate event help needy children in the
greater New York area. The foundation distributed $3.4 million in grants after
last year’s dinner.

event drew 700 guests to the traditionally festive gathering of political,
religious and philanthropic New Yorkers. Among those sharing the three-tiered
dais were New York Gov. Andrew Cuomo, New York City Mayor Bill de Blasio, Sen.
Chuck Schumer, former Secretary of State Henry Kissinger and Jeff Glor, anchor of
the “CBS Evening News.”

Jim Gaffigan was the dinner’s master of ceremonies. He poked fun at the
presumed wealth of the guests, whom he described as a “distinguished diverse
group of rich, super-rich and Michael Bloomberg.”

the billionaire former three-term mayor of New York, also was seated on the
dais. Gaffigan said wearing a white bow tie and tails and looking at the sea of
diners in formal attire made him feel “like I’m in an ugly episode of Downton

introduced Haley as “the next president of the United States,” in a nod to
widespread speculation that the Oct. 9 announcement she will leave her U.N. post
at the end of the year signifies her intention to run for the presidency.
Haley, the Republican former governor of South Carolina, has denied that she
will challenge President Donald Trump in 2020.

made light of the unexpected news of her departure. Haley said she asked
Cardinal Timothy M. Dolan of New York, the event’s host, if there was anything
she could do to boost attendance at the dinner. “He said, “Why don’t you resign
as U.S. ambassador?'” she said.

joked that as a member of Trump’s Cabinet, “it’s a thrill to be out to dinner
without being harassed.”

said Trump, who spoke at the 2016 dinner with then-opponent Hillary Clinton,
offered her advice about her speech. “He said if I get stuck for laughs, just
brag about his accomplishments. It really killed at the U.N.”

said she learned a lot during her tenure at the U.N. Despite the serious
disagreements and differences among the 193 member nations, “at one point,
every single one of them was paying Paul Manafort,” she laughed.

said her parents emigrated from India “legally, but I keep them at an
undisclosed location, just in case.” She said when Trump heard she was an
Indian American, “he asked if I was from the same tribe as Elizabeth Warren.”

the lighthearted tone of the event, the clergy sex abuse scandal and its
fallout hung in the air and were addressed head-on by the speakers. In his
invocation, Cardinal Dolan, the dinner’s host, asked
God’s mercy “on a church we have also blushed at” for its response to the

said sexual abuse is not limited to the Catholic family and the church
“recognizes its deep responsibility to address this moral failing.”

would be tragic to allow the abuse scandal to blind anyone to the amazing good
works the Catholic church does every single day,” Haley said. “In the last two
years, I have been to some very dark places where human suffering is on a level
hard for most Americans to imagine.”

described a South American border area where church organizations are the sole
providers of food and a refugee camp in central Africa where the church is on
the forefront of those seeking change.

about everywhere I’ve been, I’ve come across the Catholic Church doing
incredible work that lifts up millions of desperate people. It is serving God’s
will,” she said.

said 1928, the year Al Smith ran for president, “was a tough year to be a
Catholic,” as was 2018. Introducing himself, Gaffigan said, to applause,
“Unlike many Catholics in America who were raised Catholic, I am still Catholic
and I still go to church every Sunday. Mostly, I’m afraid to tell my wife I
don’t want to go.”

and his wife are both from large Catholic families. “She is one of nine and
they do everything together,” he said. A movie outing at Christmas included 30
people. “That’s not a group, it’s a flash mob. People thought we were from a
church. To put in in perspective, Jesus only walked around with 12.”

comedian said he and his wife “have recreated the chaos of our childhoods” by
raising a young family of five in Manhattan. He said the real reason he
accepted Cardinal Dolan’s invitation to emcee the dinner was the optimistic
hope that the cardinal would “write some recommendations” for his children.

the dinner, Lowell C. McAdam, chairman and former chief executive officer of
Verizon Communications, received the Happy Warrior Award. The distinction
recalls the nickname given to Al Smith by Franklin D. Roosevelt at the 1924
Democratic Convention. The award recognizes someone who epitomizes Gov. Smith’s
character, grace and leadership by making a positive impact on others.

Nicholas DiMarzio of Brooklyn offered the benediction.

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