Love, not some idea of perfection, leads to happiness, pope says

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By Cindy Wooden

VATICAN CITY (CNS) — Love and solidarity are what make the
world a better place, not a focus on physical perfection and hiding away those
who do not fit a commercial ideal, Pope Francis said.

“The world does not become better because only
apparently ‘perfect’ — not to mention fake — people live there, but when
human solidarity, mutual acceptance and respect increase,” the pope said
June 12 celebrating Mass for the Year of Mercy jubilee of the sick and persons
with disabilities.

Several altar servers with Down syndrome assisted Pope
Francis at the Mass in St. Peter’s Square. Persons with disabilities proclaimed the first two Scripture readings, including by using braille.

The Gospel story, about the sinful woman who washed Jesus’
feet with her tears, was acted out while a deacon read it in Italian, and sign
language interpreters were stationed throughout the square.

“Each of us, sooner or later, is called to face — at
times painfully — frailty and illness, both our own and those of others,”
Pope Francis said in his homily.

Limitations are part of being human, he said, yet today
there is a widespread notion that “sick or disabled persons cannot be
happy, since they cannot live the lifestyle held up by the culture of pleasure
and entertainment.”

“In an age when care for one’s body has become an
obsession and a big business, anything imperfect has to be hidden away, since
it threatens the happiness and serenity of the privileged few and endangers the
dominant model,” the pope said. “In some cases, we are even told that
it is better to eliminate them as soon as possible, because they become an
unacceptable economic burden in time of crisis.”

People with such attitudes, he said, “fail to
understand the real meaning of life, which also has to do with accepting
suffering and limitations.”

And for Jesus, he said, the sick and the weak, those cast
aside by society — like the woman in the Gospel story — are precisely the
ones he loves most.

The only path
to happiness is love, Pope Francis said. “How many disabled and suffering
persons open their hearts to life again as soon as they realize they are loved!
How much love can well up in a heart simply with a smile!”

The day before the Mass, the pope held a special audience
for participants in a conference sponsored by the Italian bishops’ office for
catechesis for disabled persons. Saying that he knows speeches can be boring —
and people sneak a look at their watches thinking, “when will he stop
talking?” — the pope opened the meeting to questions.

Participants asked Pope Francis how parishes can overcome
fear of people who are different, how they can fight discrimination of those
with disabilities and how to help a parish that thinks it cannot welcome the
disabled and prepare those with developmental difficulties for the sacraments.

Encountering and welcoming someone who is different can
cause fear at first, the pope said. But “we are all different. There is no
one exactly like another.”

“Differences are a richness because I have something
and you have something else and by putting the two together we have something
more beautiful, something greater,” the pope said. Diversity is not
something to fear, but is “the path to improvement, to be more beautiful
and richer.”

Discrimination, especially in a parish, “is something
very ugly,” Pope Francis said.

“It is true that if you want to receive Communion, you
must have had preparation. And if you do not understand the language (of the
catechesis), for example if you are deaf, you must have the possibility of a
preparation with sign language,” the pope said.

A pastor who says his parish cannot provide special
religious education classes “must convert,” the pope said to

“Think of a priest who does not welcome everyone. What
advice would the pope give him?” Pope Francis asked before responding,
“Close the doors of the church! Either everyone or no one” should

The priest might try to defend himself by saying that while
everyone is welcome in his parish, the developmentally disabled cannot receive
Communion because they would not understand what they are doing. Pope Francis
said his response to that would be, “You are the one who does not

“We all
have the same possibility of growing, moving forward, loving the Lord, doing
good things,” he said.

Pope Francis told those at the audience that when St. Pius X
ruled in 1910 that children as young as 7 years old could receive communion,
similar objections were raised: “But that child won’t understand,” he
said the critics complained.

But St. Pius went ahead, knowing “that children
understand in a different way,” he said. “Each one of us has a
different way of understanding things. One understands one way and another in a
different manner, but we can all know God.”

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